Uncanny, it is so accurate to be generally speaking... b'cos the information applies quite symetrically with my 2nd borne conversing with a 1st borne.
How ridiculous can English get?? When speaking a foreign language with English all in the same breath!! It is like Men are from Mars and Women are from Planet Hollywood!!
You are a wonderful and bright, living human being, just a bit shy and turned inward at a few of our not so grateful times. Those feelings are not uncommon, for those of us that have had really high HI's and really low- LO's..........it is just having bouts of feeling small and sorry- for- myself times. These seem to be common for those of us not-so-common everyday people... the hard to put in words are the insecurity thinking of that-no-one-will-understand-us, but there are many of us out here, I know you don't think so, but put your key words into the search box, with support. Online is many support groups who help those of us stuck in our own heads... but I like the bloggin thing, now. More One-on-One.
Making new friends is always a great way to feel better. Hope I was helpful, and not bossy or pushy, forgive me if so.
hi, new here, found u off lunarhunk's blog: living with a slob!
I am ml, sgl mom , etc,etc
I emphathize, my eldest son lost his GF over Xmas, and has been crying lots, downspirited all the time, got a second job, so he works all the time. Only he drops off the grandaughter, almost 3-5 days aweek, and I just had a masectomy, its been a few weeks now, and I am thankful I only have one job to return to: Male Field job, if I ever get back to work!! Electricians carry too many tools on our hips...ow, and if I can ever use my L-arm again. but it makes enough money that two jobs can't! Try be so tired you can't think or lift a finger one more time, much less bathe or change out of dirty clothes before sacking out! NO time to be bored.
just shared this one w/BF, the slob who took 3 yrs to clean the stove and counters when he does the closing night/ after dinner dishes, and sometimes polishes off with wiping them down. hehe, this is a dangerous place to get ammunition, out of the box!! hehehe!
hey, how do you add friends and build a circle, add pixes? ml
funny-- that all depends on if you don't have people into power trips trying to dick-tate how you act live and dress, and aren't a robot in a an old school town!!
THAN IT DOESN'T DEFEAT THE TRUE PURPOSE IT REPRESENTS!
(look up lanai city 96763, where if something happens, everybody knows! understaement)
smile! we don't live in loneliness, just intolerance of our own reactions to others that we don't have a power over.... AND, wait until you actually come to that acceptance!! lol lol!
I was a single mother & at their younger ages - I did well to keeping up of the house,... than of course came the overload,... house, lack of funds... need of enrichment support of their friends; our churches; the other friends that each brough over; the one million demands of the damned schools; keeping up with not the Jones' but the demand of risisng costs; 3 jobs, (governments and financial fiscal presents); like providing food on top of the $200 year books, not counting class trips, shoes n clothes e'vry 6mos, and more fundraisers that are mandatory... or lists of writing letters to contest the mandatory uniforms that strtch the budget.... than to get home and OMG,... do I have time to take a bath or eat after the dinnner making, cleaning up and washing, not counting all of the bathrooms to keeps neat, stocked and lot of household maintenance, after the car care that never ends.... and oh, did I get to sleep tonight, at 3am and still a million things to do,.... hmm does anyone know what mom's have to do? How many siblings did you have?
I am grateful to hear how neat people deal with messes. Now after all that.... My BF saves twenty empty cans and bottle in HIS 4 runner before dumping at his moms who walks around every morning at 4am to collect other peoples trash!! (recycle bottle and can) And he is too lazy to clean, except his precious hobby shit, bow and arrows amde, and gun polished, but not the sink!!
On 4 months ago
Comment written 4 months ago
Uncanny, it is so accurate to be generally speaking... b'cos the information applies quite symetrically with my 2nd borne conversing with a 1st borne.
How ridiculous can English get?? When speaking a foreign language with English all in the same breath!! It is like Men are from Mars and Women are from Planet Hollywood!!
Comment written 4 months ago
You are a wonderful and bright, living human being, just a bit shy and turned inward at a few of our not so grateful times. Those feelings are not uncommon, for those of us that have had really high HI's and really low- LO's..........it is just having bouts of feeling small and sorry- for- myself times. These seem to be common for those of us not-so-common everyday people... the hard to put in words are the insecurity thinking of that-no-one-will-understand-us, but there are many of us out here, I know you don't think so, but put your key words into the search box, with support. Online is many support groups who help those of us stuck in our own heads... but I like the bloggin thing, now
. More One-on-One.
Making new friends is always a great way to feel better. Hope I was helpful, and not bossy or pushy, forgive me if so.
mlani Fr: Hawaii
Comment written 4 months ago
hi, new here, found u off lunarhunk's blog: living with a slob!
I am ml, sgl mom , etc,etc
I emphathize, my eldest son lost his GF over Xmas, and has been crying lots, downspirited all the time, got a second job, so he works all the time. Only he drops off the grandaughter, almost 3-5 days aweek, and I just had a masectomy, its been a few weeks now, and I am thankful I only have one job to return to: Male Field job, if I ever get back to work!! Electricians carry too many tools on our hips...ow, and if I can ever use my L-arm again. but it makes enough money that two jobs can't! Try be so tired you can't think or lift a finger one more time, much less bathe or change out of dirty clothes before sacking out! NO time to be bored.
Comment written 4 months ago
just shared this one w/BF, the slob who took 3 yrs to clean the stove and counters when he does the closing night/ after dinner dishes, and sometimes polishes off with wiping them down. hehe, this is a dangerous place to get ammunition, out of the box!! hehehe!
hey, how do you add friends and build a circle, add pixes? ml
Comment written 4 months ago
funny-- that all depends on if you don't have people into power trips trying to dick-tate how you act live and dress, and aren't a robot in a an old school town!!
THAN IT DOESN'T DEFEAT THE TRUE PURPOSE IT REPRESENTS!
(look up lanai city 96763, where if something happens, everybody knows! understaement)
Comment written 4 months ago
smile! we don't live in loneliness, just intolerance of our own reactions to others that we don't have a power over.... AND, wait until you actually come to that acceptance!! lol lol!
I was a single mother & at their younger ages - I did well to keeping up of the house,... than of course came the overload,... house, lack of funds... need of enrichment support of their friends; our churches; the other friends that each brough over; the one million demands of the damned schools; keeping up with not the Jones' but the demand of risisng costs; 3 jobs, (governments and financial fiscal presents); like providing food on top of the $200 year books, not counting class trips, shoes n clothes e'vry 6mos, and more fundraisers that are mandatory... or lists of writing letters to contest the mandatory uniforms that strtch the budget.... than to get home and OMG,... do I have time to take a bath or eat after the dinnner making, cleaning up and washing, not counting all of the bathrooms to keeps neat, stocked and lot of household maintenance, after the car care that never ends.... and oh, did I get to sleep tonight, at 3am and still a million things to do,.... hmm does anyone know what mom's have to do? How many siblings did you have?
I am grateful to hear how neat people deal with messes. Now after all that.... My BF saves twenty empty cans and bottle in HIS 4 runner before dumping at his moms who walks around every morning at 4am to collect other peoples trash!! (recycle bottle and can) And he is too lazy to clean, except his precious hobby shit, bow and arrows amde, and gun polished, but not the sink!!